someone · 1mo
how do you cope with having a nuanced opinion on contact stances while everyone around you is staunchly anti-C? i feel like i can never ever talk about it and i have no one to talk about it with anyway. i think that applying homo sapien logic to other species makes no sense. i just wish i had someone to talk about it with who i know wouldnt betray me but i feel i cant trust anyone, so im here i guess. i look up to you a bit.
not everyone around me is staunchly anti-c, tho it can feel that way at times. but most people i'm actually close with don't consider themselves anti-c. and frankly, i think a lot of self-proclaimed anti-cs are more neutral/complex-c and are terrified to admit it, which is sad.
we could all do better when it comes to coexisting, but anti-cs in particular have a massive issue of weaponizing classic anti-para tactics and accusing others of abuse and attempting to socially isolate them because they don't 100% agree on everything. it's disgusting.
like, trust me, i DO have some experience with pro-cs being shitty to me because i'm more neutral/complex-c, but you know what they've never, EVER done? they've never reposted my dox. they've never called me an abuser. they've never threatened people for associating with me.
